Serving Husband While You Are Menstruating

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Serving Husband While You Are Menstruating ~ Hi all readers! Are you Muslim women who want to serve your husband when you are menstruating? If that is true, then you should read this article to the end. Yup! As we already know, that when a Muslim woman is menstruating, she cannot have sex with her husband. If that is done, then both of them will sin. But, what should you do, if your husband wants to have sex while you are menstruating?

Actually, there are many ways that a wife can do to serve or make her husband happy even though she is menstruating. I think we all know that. One of them is doing a handjob. But the problem is, can it be done?

Okay! Before I explain the answers to the questions above, I will quote the opinions of two Muslim scholars who are related our discussion.

Opinions of Muslim Scholar About Serving Husband While You Are Menstruating

قَالَ اِبْنُ حَجَرٍ الْهَيْتَمِي فِيْ تُحْفَةُ الْمُحْتَاج : اِسْتِخْرَاجِ الْمَنِيِّ بِغَيْرِ جِمَاعٍ حَرَامًا كَانَ كَإِخْرَاجٍ بِيَدِهِ أَوْ مُبَاحًا كَإِخْرَاجِهِ بِيَدِ حَلِيْلَتِهِ

Ibn Hajar al-Haitami said in the book “Tuhfatu al-Muhtaj”, “That (masturbation) is to issue semen in a way other than sex. It is not allowed (haram) if it is done with his own hands, but it is permissible (mubah) if it is done with his wife’s hands. “

قال الْمَوَرْدِي فِيْ الْإِقْنَاعِ : لِلزَّوْجِ الْإِسْتِمْتَاعِ بِزَوْجَتِهِ كُلَّ وَقْتٍ عَلَى أَيِّ صِفَةٍ كَانَتْ إِذَا كَانَتْ فِيْ الْقُبُلِ , وَلَهُ الْإِسْتِمْنَاءُ بِيَدِهَا

Al-Mawardi said in the book “al-Iqna”, “A husband may issue his semen with the help of his wife at any time (unless the wife is menstruating) and in any way as long as it is done in his wife’s vagina. He is also allowed to take out his semen with the help of his wife’s hand.”

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All Readers! If we have read al-Haitami’s opinion and al-Mawardi’s opinion above, surely we understand that the hand job done by a menstruating wife to serve or make her husband happy is something that can be done. Now we also understand, that the opinions of the two Muslim scholars are two opinions which explain that masturbation is something that is permissible in Islamic teachings. So, if you are a Muslim woman who is menstruating and your husband wants you to serve him, then you can do that!

That is a brief explanation of serving husband while you are menstruating. Do you understand? If you want to ask, please ask!

I think that’s enough for this article. May be useful! Amen!

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