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It Is Sunnah To Bath with Your Wife? Read This!

It Is Sunnah To Bath with Your Wife? ~ Hi all readers! In this article I will explain one of the things that married Muslims should know. In general, all married people want their marriage to be happy. There are many things they have done. One of them is doing romantic things. In general, one of the things that can make a husband and wife relationship even more romantic is taking a bath together.

But there are some important things about bathing with husband or wife that Muslims should know. Does Islam allow that? Is bathing with husband or wife Sunnah? If you want to know the answers to these two questions, then you must read this article to the end!

Readers all! Before I explain the answers to the two questions above, I want to explain, that Islam obliges all married Muslims to do things that can make their marriage romantic. In fact, Islam strongly prohibits hurting a spouse, such as a husband hurting his wife, or a wife hurting her husband, or a parent hurting a child, or a child hurting a parent. Islam strictly prohibits that.

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We can find an explanation of the obligation to do things that can make the lives of Muslims more romantic in the verses of Quran below;

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لَا يَحِلُّ لَكُمْ أَن تَرِثُوا النِّسَاءَ كَرْهًا ۖ وَلَا تَعْضُلُوهُنَّ لِتَذْهَبُوا بِبَعْضِ مَا آتَيْتُمُوهُنَّ إِلَّا أَن يَأْتِينَ بِفَاحِشَةٍ مُّبَيِّنَةٍ ۚ وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ ۚ فَإِن كَرِهْتُمُوهُنَّ فَعَسَىٰ أَن تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَيَجْعَلَ اللَّهُ فِيهِ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا

O ye who believe! You cannot get women by force. Do not trouble them because you will take what you have given them, unless they do some real heinous thing. And get along with them very well. Then if you don’t like them, (then be patient) because maybe you don’t like something even though Allah makes a lot of good in that thing. (An-Nisa: 19).

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Readers all! If we understand the above verse of the Quran, then we understand that Islam strongly obliges Muslims to do good to their partners, so that husbands do good to their wives, and for wives to do good to their husbands. It is true, that the above verse of the Quran only contains an explanation about the prohibition of husbands to hurt their wives. But if we understand the verses of the Quran, then we understand that the verses of the Quran explain the obligation to maintain harmony in life after marriage. In fact, Islam strongly prohibits men from marrying women by force.

Now, in relation to the topic of this article, does Islam allow a husband to bathe with his wife? Is bathing with your wife or husband Sunnah?

Please pay attention to the hadith below!

عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ : كُنْتُ أَغْتَسِلُ أَنَا وَرَسُوْلُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مِنْ إِنَاءٍ وَاحِدٍ تَخْتَلِفُ أَيْدِيْنَا فِيْهِ مِنَ الْجَنَابَةِ . مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ

From Aisha radliyallaahu ‘anhaa, she said, “I once bathed with the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam in one container because of jinabah. Our hands are different in them.” The hadith is narrated by al-Bukhari and Muslim.

All readers! If we have understood the hadith above, then of course we already know, that Islam allows a husband and wife to bathe together. But the question then is, can both of them be naked or should they both cover their bodies? Honestly, I haven’t found any information about that. But, if I pay attention to some Islamic teachings about the obligation to keep eyes so that a Muslim does not see things that are considered filthy, then they should both keep their bodies closed, at least that can be done by covering the penis, vagina, and breasts.

I think, so that you understand the above hadith perfectly, I must explain here, that what is meant by the sentence, “Our hands are different in it,” in the above hadith, that the hand of the Prophet Muhammad and the hand of Aisha, his wife, alternately to take water. One hand takes water and the other hand splashes water into the body. That is the point.

In addition, we also understand that the above hadith explains, that Islam requires a married couple to maintain household harmony. The Prophet Muhammad did it with Aisha.

Readers all! I think by now you understand that Islam allows a husband to bathe with his wife. And, bathing with husband or wife is Sunnah. Why is that? Because what is meant by the Sunnah is everything that is attributed to the Prophet Muhammad, whether it is in the form of words, deeds, or decisions. Prophet Muhammad had bathed with Aisha, one of his wives. So, bathing with your wife or husband is Sunnah!

I think that’s all for this article, about “it is Sunnah to bath with your wife?”. Do you understand? If you have any questions, please ask!

See you again in the next article!