Husband and Wife Relationship in Bed in Islam

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Hi all readers! Are you looking for an explanation about husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam? If your answer is “Yes”, congratulations! Now you are reading the right article. Why? Because that is what I will explain in this article. As Muslims, we must understand that. That's why I wrote this article. So, you have to read it to the end.

Specifically, there are some important things about "husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam" which I will explain in this article. Some of the important things I mean are as follows:

Why Should We Understand Husband and Wife Relationship in Bed in Islam?

The first important thing about husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam which I will explain now is "why should we understand husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam?". I want you to understand that first before you read any more explanations in this article. Why? Because that is one of the basic things about the topic of our discussion and so that you understand the urgency of our discussion.

Specifically, if you ask me, "why do we have to understand husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam?", then, the answer is because husband and wife must have a good relationship, including relationship in bed. They can't hurt each other. We can find an explanation of that in several verses of the Quran and some hadiths that describe the relationship between husband and wife.

Husband and Wife Relationship in Quran

We can find an explanation of husband and wife relationship in Quran or the commandment that husband and wife should make each other happy and not hurt each other in several verses of Quran as follows:

يٰٓاَيُّهَا الَّذِيْنَ اٰمَنُوْا لَا يَحِلُّ لَكُمْ اَنْ تَرِثُوا النِّسَاۤءَ كَرْهًا ۗ وَلَا تَعْضُلُوْهُنَّ لِتَذْهَبُوْا بِبَعْضِ مَآ اٰتَيْتُمُوْهُنَّ اِلَّآ اَنْ يَّأْتِيْنَ بِفَاحِشَةٍ مُّبَيِّنَةٍ ۚ وَعَاشِرُوْهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوْفِ ۚ فَاِنْ كَرِهْتُمُوْهُنَّ فَعَسٰٓى اَنْ تَكْرَهُوْا شَيْـًٔا وَّيَجْعَلَ اللّٰهُ فِيْهِ خَيْرًا كَثِيْرًا

O you who have believed, it is not lawful for you to inherit women by compulsion. And do not make difficulties for them in order to take [back] part of what you gave them unless they commit a clear immorality. And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them – perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good. (An-Nisa [4]; 19).

وَلَنْ تَسْتَطِيْعُوْٓا اَنْ تَعْدِلُوْا بَيْنَ النِّسَاۤءِ وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ فَلَا تَمِيْلُوْا كُلَّ الْمَيْلِ فَتَذَرُوْهَا كَالْمُعَلَّقَةِ ۗوَاِنْ تُصْلِحُوْا وَتَتَّقُوْا فَاِنَّ اللّٰهَ كَانَ غَفُوْرًا رَّحِيْمًا

And you will never be able to be equal [in feeling] between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. So do not incline completely [toward one] and leave another hanging. And if you amend [your affairs] and fear Allah - then indeed, Allah is ever Forgiving and Merciful. (An-Nisa [4]; 129).

That is a brief explanation of husband and wife relationship in Quran. As Muslims, we must understand that.

Husband and Wife Relationship in Hadith

We can find an explanation of husband and wife relationship in hadith or the commandment that husband and wife make each other happy and not hurt each other in the following hadiths:

عَنْ أَبِيْ هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : أَكْمَلُ الْمُؤْمِنِيْنَ إِيْمَانًا أَحْسَنُهُمُ خُلُقًا ، وَخِيَارُكُمُ خِيَارُكُمْ لِنِسَائِهِمْ

The best of believers are those who are best in character. And the best of you are those who are chosen (morally) to women.

عَنْ أَبِيْ هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ : مَنْ كَانَتْ لَهُ اِمْرَأَتَانِ فَمَالَ إِلَى إِحْدَاهُمَا جَاءَ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ وَشِقُّهُ مَاِئلٌ

From Abu Hurairah radiyallahu anhu, from the Prophet (Muhammad) sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said, "Whoever has two wives and he love one of them more, then he will come on the Day of Resurrection in a tilted state."

عَنْ أَبِيْ هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ , قَالَ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّم : لَا يَفْرَكْ مُؤْمِنٌ مُؤْمِنَةً ، إِنْ كَرِهَ مِنْهَا خُلُقًا رَضِيَ مِنْهَا آخَرَ

From Abu Hurairah radiyallahu anhu, Allah's Messenger (Prophet Muhammad) sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, "A believing man should not hate a believing woman. If he hates a woman's behavior, then he certainly likes her other behavior in that woman."

That is a brief explanation of husband and wife relationship in hadith and "why should we understand the husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam?". As Muslims, we must understand that.

How Can I Seduce My Husband in Islam?

The second important point about husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam which I will explain now is “how can I seduce my husband in Islam?”. I want you to understand that because it is one of the important things about husband and wife relationship that some Muslims don't understand very well.

Seduction is one way to please someone. So, do not be surprised if it can add romance in marriage. In Islam, seducing a husband or seducing a wife can be done by saying sweet words that are not lies. So, seducing a husband or seducing a wife is perfectly permissible in Islam.

Specifically, I haven't found any evidence that explains the legality of seducing husband or seducing wife in Islam. But we can find an explanation of the legality of seduction in the hadith below:

عَنْ أَبِيْ هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ , أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّم قَالَ : خَيْرُ النِّسَاءِ الَّتِي إِذَا نَظَرْتَ إِلَيْهَا سَرَّتْكَ ، وَإِذَا أَمَرْتَهَا أَطَاعَتْكَ ، وَإِذَا غِبْتَ عَنْهَا حَفِظَتْكَ فِي مَالِكَ وَنَفْسِهَا

From Abu Hurairah radiyallahu anhu, that the Prophet (Muhammad) salallahu alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wife is a wife who makes you happy when you see her, who obeys you when you order her, who takes care of herself and your treasure while you are gone."

In the hadith it is explained that the best wife is the wife who makes her husband happy if he sees her. We can understand it as the appearance of a good wife in front of her husband and the words of a good wife to her husband. We can also conclude that the best husband is the husband who makes his wife happy if she sees him and the husband who looks good in front of his wife and says good words to his wife. Seduction is one of the good sayings because it can make our partner happy.

That's a brief explanation of "how can I seduce my husband in Islam?". As Muslims, we must understand that.

Can Husband and Wife See Their Private Parts in Islam?

The third important thing about "husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam" which I will explain now is "can a husband and wife see their private parts in Islam?". I want you to understand that because it is one of the important topics related to our discussion now.

One important thing I want to clarify before I explain more about "can a husband and wife see their private parts in Islam?", that marriage in Islam allows doing something that was previously forbidden such as, like sex (there are some things related to sex that forbidden in Islam), kissing, touching, making out, and so on.

For married people, seeing their partner's private parts is commonplace. In Islam, there is no prohibition for it. So, specifically, husband and wife may see their private parts in Islam. Islam allows them both to see each other's private parts.

But for some Muslims, seeing their partner's private parts can disturb the peace of mind. That's why some Muslims don't want to do that. It doesn't matter if they don't want to do that.

That's a brief explanation of "can a husband and wife see their private parts in Islam?". As Muslims, we must understand that.

Romance Husband and Wife Relationship in Bed in Islam

The fourth important point about "husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam" which I will explain now is "romance husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam". I want you to understand that so you know what husband and wife need to do in bed so that their relationship is always good and happy.

Romance husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam cannot be done arbitrarily. The point is that there are some things that should not be done to add to the romance in chopped. Some things that should not be done are things that violate Islamic rules, such as lying, anal sex, and so on.

In other words, romance husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam must be carried out in good ways that are allowed in Islam, such as seducing each other, complimenting each other, sexually satisfying each other in the right ways in Islam.

That is a brief explanation of romance husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam. As Muslims, we must understand that.

How to Please Husband in Bed in Islam?

The fifth important thing about husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam which I will explain now is "how to please husband in bed in Islam?". I want you to understand that because it is one of the important things in marriage in Islam that must be well understood by Muslims.

If you ask me, "how to please husband in bed in Islam?", then, the answer is to do all the things the husband wants if it does not violate the rules of Islam. If your husband wants you to do something that doesn't violate Islamic rules, then you have to do that. But if your husband wants you to do something that violates the rules of Islam, then you must refuse him in a kind way.

Once again, I would like to remind you, that Islamic rules are the standard of husband and wife relationship in bed. What it means is that if something you are going to do does not violate Islamic rules, then you can do it. But if it violates Islamic rules, then you should not do it.

That's a brief explanation of "how to please husband in bed in Islam?". As Muslims, we must understand that.

How to Satisfy Husband Sexually During Pregnancy in Islam?

The sixth important thing about husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam which I will explain now is "how to satisfy husband sexually during pregnant in Islam?". I want you to understand that because that is one of the important things about this topic that some Muslims don't understand very well.

If you ask me, “how to satisfy husband sexually during pregnant in Islam?”, then, the answer is that it can be done as usual. The point is that pregnancy does not prevent a wife from doing things to please her husband in bed, unless it causes miscarriage.

So, you can do anything that doesn't violate Islamic rules and that doesn't cause miscarriage to please your husband sexually. I think you all understand that. So, I'm not going to say much about it.

That's a brief explanation of "how to satisfy husband sexually during pregnant in Islam?". As Muslims, we must understand that.

That's a brief explanation of husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam and some important things about it. Do you understand? If you want to ask, please ask!

I think that's enough for this article. Hope it is useful. Amen.

See you again in the next article!