How to Repent for Zina After Marriage? Find Out Here!
Hi, dear readers! Are you looking for an explanation of "How to repent for Zina after marriage"? If your answer is "Yes," congratulations! You are now reading the right article. Why? Because that is what I will explain here. As Muslims, we must understand this concept, so make sure to read it until the end.
Specifically, there are some important aspects regarding "How to repent for Zina after marriage" that I will cover in this article. The key points I will discuss are as follows:
Meaning of Zina After Marriage
An essential aspect of "How to repent for Zina after marriage" is understanding the meaning of Zina in this context. I want you to grasp this concept before proceeding with any further explanations in this article. Why? Because it is fundamental to understanding Zina after marriage.
When we examine the phrase "Zina after marriage," we can identify two key components:
Zina
"Zina" is an Arabic word, written as: الزِّنَا. Linguistically, the term "Zina" has several meanings, among which the most common are narrow and expansive.
In Islamic law, "Zina" refers to engaging in sexual relations without a lawful marriage according to Islamic principles. I have discussed this topic in detail in previous articles, so I won’t elaborate further here. If you haven’t read those articles, I highly recommend that you do.
After Marriage
There's not much to clarify about the phrase "after marriage." Simply put, it refers to the status of being married. However, it's important to specify that the marriage in question must be a legitimate marriage according to Islamic law.
Therefore, we can understand "Zina after marriage" as sexual relations engaged in by someone who is married. In Islamic legal terminology, Zina after marriage is referred to as الزِّنَا الْمُحْصَنُ.
That is a brief explanation of the meaning of Zina after marriage. As Muslims, we must grasp this concept.
Why Is Repenting for Zina After Marriage Important?
The important aspect of "How to repent for Zina after marriage" that I will explain now is the reason why repentance for Zina after marriage is crucial. This is one of the key discussions about Zina that Muslims who have committed this sin must understand.
By the way, do you know why repenting for Zina after marriage is important? To grasp this, you need to understand the concept of Zina in Islam.
In several articles I have published about Zina, I often explain that it is considered one of the major sins. Sin represents a mistake, and all mistakes or sins have negative effects on the individuals who commit them.
For example, one of the major sins in Islam is murder. If someone has killed another person, that individual will likely feel a profound sense of guilt. In fact, they may be haunted by the memory of the person they have killed, which can lead to a disturbed psychological state—perhaps even madness.
Similarly, a person who has committed Zina will likely experience constant guilt. They may feel remorse toward their parents, spouse, the person with whom they committed Zina, and their families. They may feel tainted by their actions. One certainty is that they will face severe punishment in Hell for committing Zina.
The only way to alleviate sins and lessen the guilt caused by Zina is through repentance. Repentance involves recognizing and regretting the sins committed, along with a firm resolve not to repeat them. This is essential for anyone who has engaged in Zina. Thus, this is why repenting for Zina after marriage is important. As Muslims, we must understand this.
How to Repent for Zina After Marriage?
The important aspect of "How to repent for Zina after marriage" that I will explain now is a specific answer. I will outline what those who have committed Zina after marriage should do.
Before I delve into what a person who has committed Zina should do, it's important to note that the steps I am about to explain can also be applied to general repentance for Zina.
In general, there are five important actions that someone who wishes to repent for Zina after marriage must undertake. These five key actions are as follows:
Ask Allah for Forgiveness
The first essential step for someone seeking to repent for Zina after marriage is to ask Allah for forgiveness. This is crucial because the individual has violated God's commands by committing Zina, which is strictly prohibited in Islam. Additionally, they should also express remorse to the Prophet Muhammad, as he is the Messenger of Allah who has made it clear that Zina is one of the major sins.
Apologizing to Allah can be done by reciting Istighfar, while showing remorse to the Prophet Muhammad can be achieved by reciting Salawat.
Regret Zina
The second important step for someone wishing to repent for Zina after marriage is to genuinely regret the Zina they have committed.
Be Determined Not to Commit Zina Again
The third crucial step is to make a firm determination not to commit Zina again.
Perform the Janabah Bath
The fourth important action for someone wanting to repent for Zina after marriage is to perform the Janabah bath to cleanse themselves from major impurities due to having engaged in sexual relations.
Recite a Prayer for Forgiveness from Zina
The fifth step is to read a prayer to seek forgiveness from Zina. There are many prayers available, one of which is as follows:
بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمَانِ الرَّحِيْمِ . اَللَّهُمَّ لَكَ الرَّحْمَةُ كُلُّهَا , وَلَكَ الْمَغْفِرَةُ كُلُّهَا . اَللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلِّمْ وَبَارِكْ عَلَى خَيْرِ خَلْقِكَ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ , وَعَلَى آلِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ أَجْمَعِيْنَ . رَبَّنَا لَا تُؤَاخِذْنَا إِن نَّسِينَا أَوْ أَخْطَأْنَا , رَبَّنَا وَلَا تَحْمِلْ عَلَيْنَا إِصْرًا كَمَا حَمَلْتَهُ عَلَى الَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِنَا , رَبَّنَا وَلَا تُحَمِّلْنَا مَا لَا طَاقَةَ لَنَا بِهِ , وَاعْفُ عَنَّا وَاغْفِرْ لَنَا وَارْحَمْنَا , أَنتَ مَوْلَانَا فَانصُرْنَا عَلَى الْقَوْمِ الْكَافِرِينَ . اَللَّهُمَّ أَدْعُوْكَ لِتَغْفِرَ كَبَائِرَ ذُنُوْبِيْ وَصَغَائِرَهَا . اَللَّهُمَّ إِنِّيْ أَتُوْبُ إِلَيْكَ رَبِّيْ مِنَ الزِّنَا . دَعَوْتُكَ رَبِّيْ كَمَا أَمَرْتَنِيْ , فَأَجِبْ دُعَائِيْ كَمَا وَعَدْتَنِيْ . إِنَّكَ لَا تُخْلِفُ الْمِيْعَادَ
In the name of Allah, the Most Merciful in this world and the hereafter. O my Lord, all mercy belongs to You, and all forgiveness is Yours. O my Lord, grant mercy, peace, and blessings to Your best of creatures, our leader Muhammad, and to all his family and companions. O our Lord, do not punish us if we forget or if we have made mistakes. O our Lord, do not impose on us a burden like the one You imposed on those before us. O our Lord, do not put on us what we cannot bear. Forgive us, pardon us, and have mercy on us. You are our Protector against the disbelievers. O our Lord, I pray to You to forgive our major sins and our minor ones. O our Lord, indeed I turn to You in repentance from Zina. I have prayed to You, O my Lord, as You have commanded me, so answer my prayer as You have promised me. Truly, You do not break Your promises.
Conclusion
In conclusion, understanding how to repent for Zina after marriage is essential for any Muslim who has committed this serious sin. The journey to forgiveness involves several key steps: sincerely asking Allah for forgiveness, genuinely regretting the act, committing to never repeat it, performing the Janabah bath for purification, and reciting prayers for mercy. These actions not only help cleanse the individual spiritually but also restore their relationship with Allah and their loved ones. Repentance is a vital part of the Islamic faith, emphasizing the importance of remorse and commitment to righteousness. By embracing these steps, individuals can find peace and healing, transforming their guilt into a renewed sense of purpose in their spiritual lives. Remember, Allah’s mercy is vast, and sincere repentance opens the door to forgiveness and renewal. May this guide serve as a helpful resource on your path to repentance. Ameen.
I think that's enough for this article. May it be useful. Ameen.
See you again in the next article.
Thanks to the author, Akhmad Syafiuddin.